Lesson From President Bush

Found in Strait Times, 4 September 2007, pg 19.

President Bush: "I cry a lot on God's shoulder."

"I try not to wear my worries on my sleeve. Self-pity is the worst thing that can happen to a presidency."

So often people indulge in self pity if not in our head then in front of close friends, cell group members, or any sympathetic ears. It is particularly nice to have people know of our plight. Things like the uncaring parents, mean siblings, self centered husbands/wives, ungrateful children, daughter in laws or son in laws who alienate us from our children and grandchildren, and others are favourite subjects.

However, we are called to unburden our load to God first, not others, because unburdening to others can have unwanted and disappointing effects. Our friends may not take it favourably. They may change their opinion on our person. And worst, we may become a stumbling block to an unbelievers or new believers.

Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke fits perfectly, and the burden I give you is light."
Matthew 11:28-30